Posts Tagged ‘maturity’

The Cost of Doing Nothing

Sunday, July 26th, 2009

Nobody can make proactive investments in your life for you: it’s entirely up to you. As I’ve mentioned often before: at midlife, the training wheels come off. The expectations and constraints that ushered you through childhood, adolescence and adulthood have served (or outlasted) their usefulness.

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Sunday, June 7th, 2009

Every day, someone leaves his or her life partner to find or to acquire someone ‘better’. And very often, some of these people discover that the relationship they created was as bad or worse than the one they left. If patterns of dysfunctional behavior are following you around, take a look at the common denominator: it’s YOU!

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Can We Talk?

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009

It’s a life-long task to learn to extract the meaning from the words, especially when that meaning has little to do with what the words mean. The task very often involves listening with the heart and blocking out the head — particularly in very intimate relationships.

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Who Am I?

Monday, April 27th, 2009

Want some help? Here’s a little exercise that I’ve put together for you to help you to work through this transition.

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Your Own Personal Stile

Friday, April 17th, 2009

It’s a fact of the human condition: transitions never come easily. They always appear as an interruption in the kind of life we desire and even plan for: a life of security, tranquility, ease, and peace.

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