So, the clock strikes twelve, your dreams of success at the ball (or in your job or career or marriage) melt away farther with every ring of the bell, and, before you know it, you’re back in the scullery where you came from.
Read More..>>The truth is that nobody’s forcing you to do anything. The things you do (or don’t do) are all of your own volition. You either want to do something or don’t want to do something, and that’s the end of it.
Read More..>>Ignorance of the risks you’re taking can’t in any way save you from them. To handle this situation effectively, you must have a knowledge and awareness of what you’ll be facing. If you’re a young man with midlife ahead of you, do you know what’s coming? Will you be ready for it when it does? The stakes may be much higher than you know.
Read More..>>Life as we know it is already rife with maladaptive defense mechanisms. Systematically getting rid of (or at least learning to manage) these once-necessary defenses, which have long since turned on us, makes up the bulk of the maturing process.
Read More..>>The midlife transition that you’re going through (or, sooner or later, will be) can very easily turn you from an asset into a real liability for every group or organization that you’re a part of: from your family to your career, to your circle of friends and acquaintances. From their perspective, it’s painful to watch someone self-destruct, especially someone with as much potential as you obviously have.
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